Nobody likes too much routine. It is not exactly an erotic rouser to go through the same old motions with a loved one when it comes to keeping the flames of passion alive. Whilst lovemaking, relationships and keeping yourself protected in the bedroom department might be serious issues, not to be taken lightly, there is room for a little fun and frolics as well. Sharing a laugh, as well as expressing your love and your libido can bring a whole new level of intimacy to a couple, which keeps things interesting and fresh.
Just as a loving couple can explore and try out different types of condoms to find the right fit, in every sense of the word, so too can they experiment with what feels good when it comes to heightening the senses so to speak. Vibrating rings, and rings which aim at keeping a man’s erection for longer are just some of the extra ingredients which some men and women like to throw into the sexual experience. Vibrators, massagers, and cups for men come in all styles so that couples can find what turns each other on, as well as themselves.
Some people have a hang-up about adult toys for the bedroom, perhaps because they are embarrassed or do not really know what is available on the market. It is of course understandable that certain couples might feel shy about introducing this type of fun into their sexual lives. However, in many ways, being open and taking time to appreciate what your partner likes and what gives him or her pleasure is a positive way of communicating. This is not a way of trying to just simply an extra pizzazz into bedtime, but an intimate, loving and fun way of exploring yourself and your partner.
Even in the best relationships it is easy to get stuck in a rut, or to not try new things, and quite often nights in front of the television can take over a night of nookie as work and busy lives take their toll. Making an effort to look after your own sexual satisfaction is important and sensuality can be a solo pursuit as well as a shared one. You might want to look at your love and life and be prepared to inject a bit of laughter, joy and pleasurable props to express yourself in a new way, with some extra spice.